Blog - Weight Loss
There's no denying it - trying to lose weight can be a long and challenging journey. If you've ever tried and failed to lose weight before then you probably know just how frustrating it can be - especially when feelings like stress, low self-esteem and boredom crop up.
It's not unusual for people to get into a cycle of dieting, overeating, feeling guilty and dieting again. This is known as 'yo-yo dieting' and makes weight loss difficult to sustain.
While diets and nutrition plans focus on what you eat and how often, hypnotherapy for weight loss changes how you feel about what you eat. For example - on a diet you might eat a carrot and wish you were eating a carrot cake, but with hypnotherapy you can learn to enjoy the carrot and not give that cake a second thought. It might be hard to imagine a world where you'd happily turn down your favourite food for something healthier, but with certain weight loss hypnotherapy techniques it is possible to change your thinking patterns and gain control over cravings in a way that doesn't depress you.
By targeting the unconscious mind with powerful suggestion techniques, hypnotherapy will help you develop a positive relationship with food and exercise. The aim of hypnotherapy for weight loss is to make you feel confident about your body, change any negative thoughts about eating and help you lose weight responsibly without impacting your emotional well-being.
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Do I need to lose weight?
A lot of people insist they need to lose weight, whether they're overweight or not. The truth is, very few people are happy with the shape and size of their bodies, regardless of whether or not they need to lose weight.
According to recent statistics from Public Health England, nearly two-thirds of adults in England need to lose weight because they're overweight or obese.
You may need to lose weight if you:
- have a body mass index (BMI) of 25 or more
- are a man with a waist circumference that exceeds 37 inches
- are a woman with a waist circumference that exceeds 32 inches
- have a high body fat percentage for your age and sex
- have pain in your joints (excess weight puts greater stress on joints)
- have type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, or heart disease.
- To lose weight it's important to eat a balanced, healthy diet and exercise more. Signs you are overeating include:
- You eat so fast you do not really taste the flavours in the food or notice your body signalling that it is full.
- You always eat everything on your plate even if you are full, so as not to waste food (this can be reinforced by parents during childhood).
- You eat when you are bored or lonely.
- You eat when you are upset or miserable.
- You eat to reward yourself (i.e. I've done so well at the gym, I deserve this chocolate bar).
It's unhealthy to be overweight or obese because you have a higher risk of developing/suffering from:
- type 2 diabetes
- high blood pressure
- high cholesterol
- heart disease
- heart attack
Being heavier than average can also have social repercussions, including discrimination, verbal/emotional bullying and even physical abuse. This stigma can intensify the feelings of shame and inadequacy some people feel when they look in the mirror. Feelings like this can lead to:
- low self-esteem
- low self-confidence
All of these emotions can quite seriously reduce a person's quality of life and even have a domino effect on their careers, relationships and everyday experiences. It is for this reason that many people turn to hypnosis for weight loss, as it can help to address negative thoughts and feelings as well as the underlying causes of unhealthy eating habits which may be contributing to weight gain.
While it is important for overweight and obese people to lose weight for health reasons, it's not good to feel down or depressed about it. Because body shape and size is so tied in with the western idea of beauty, people are constantly looking for 'quick fixes' to cut corners. Diet pills, fad weight loss diets and gruelling exercise regimes are just some of the ways people try to lose weight. What you have to ask yourself is - am I happy doing this? Can I carry on doing this for the rest of my life?
To lose and keep weight off, you can't just go on a six-week purge and then go back to your previous habits. You have to make real and often major lifestyle changes. This can be hard - after all, sugary, fatty, starchy food tastes good and exercise takes time and effort. What makes weight loss harder is the emotions we associate with certain foods and the act of eating.
This is where hypnotherapy for weight loss can help. In order to change your body, you need to first change your mind. You have to ask yourself - why am I unhappy with my body, and why can't I lose weight?
Lots of people try and fail to lose weight for a number of reasons. These reasons are often unconscious, making it hard for us to overcome them. Hypnotherapy for weight loss aims to expose these reasons, allowing clients to finally break through barriers that may have been preventing them from losing weight for many years. Common reasons you might find it hard to successfully lose weight include:
- You comfort eat
When we are babies we learn to associate feeding with the comfort of our mothers. Some experts believe this association never really leaves us. As we grow older and we take on more responsibilities, life can get more stressful and food can offer a reversion back to those early days of complete dependency. If you've ever found yourself reaching for a chocolate bar after a busy day, or ordering a take-away when you feel lonely and sad, then you might be a comfort eater.
As a comfort eater you will find it more difficult to lose weight because you've let food become your coping mechanism and without it, you might not know how to deal with your emotions. Weight loss hypnotherapy can help to address this, helping you learn how to process negative emotions in a way that doesn't lead to comfort eating.
- You eat mindlessly
In order to lose weight, you have to be completely honest about how much you eat and exercise. Even when you keep a food diary or use a food-tracking app, it's easy to forget about the odd snack here and there.
Perhaps you pick at ingredients while you make dinner? Do you grab something on your commute to work, or tuck into a biscuit with your afternoon tea? It's often these 'on the go' foods that catch us out but they really do add up. Even if you religiously stick to salad for dinner, conveniently ignoring all the things you eat in-between won't be doing you any favours. This type of mindless eating is something weight loss hypnotherapy can help you to overcome.
- You ban food
Like a mysterious box you're told not to open, eliminating certain foods from your diet can make them all the more appealing. If you find yourself having a daily face-off with the office biscuits, you're more likely to want to binge by the end of the week. The key to sustainable and healthy weight loss is to learn self-control. If you can train yourself to stick to just one treat every so often, without feeling tempted in-between, then you'll be able to enjoy your favourite foods without putting on weight. Significantly, a key part of hypnosis for weight loss is helping clients to regain self-control - helping them to put emotional factors aside and develop a relationship with food that is sensible and promotes a healthy weight.
- You don't exercise enough
Exercise is just as important as diet when it comes to losing weight. Sometimes mental blocks can stop us wanting to exercise, including:
feeling a lack of energy
feeling too self-conscious to exercise in public
not wanting to sweat
convincing yourself you'll 'go tomorrow' (every day).
Exercise is definitely a mental thing. Weight loss hypnotherapy can help you break down those mental blocks that are stopping you from making the most of your body. More often than not, getting your body moving and your heart pumping will make you feel better about yourself in general, leading to healthier behaviours and happiness in the long-term.
Hypnotherapy for weight loss is becoming increasingly accepted, and people all over the world are finding it a beneficial means of maintaining a healthy weight in the long-term. Despite its growing popularity however, hypnosis for weight loss is still met with some scepticism. Many people are still unsure about what hypnotherapy involves and how it works.
It is useful to know that during hypnosis you will not:
- be out of control
- be asleep
- be told to do anything you don't want to do
- have your memory erased
- be forced to reveal your deepest darkest secrets.
- Hypnotherapy will not see you being prized open and exploited by your hypnotherapist; you will remain in control throughout your sessions.
Your hypnotherapist is essentially a coach. He or she will guide you into a state of deep relaxation.
Once your body and mind are in relaxation mode (much like a daydream), your hypnotherapist will be able to access your unconscious mind (the part of us that works all the time but that we're not necessarily aware of, i.e. innate instincts and survival mechanisms).
Soothing, carefully worded scripts can be used to explore a client's reasons for overeating and suggest new ways of thinking through visualisations. You have the control to reject any suggestions you don't feel happy with without any guidance from your hypnotherapist.
Over time - and a series of weight loss hypnotherapy sessions - you will learn how to replace your negative habits and eating patterns with positive ones suggested by your hypnotherapist.
While each case is different because everyone has different reasons for wanting to lose weight, some suggestions you might encounter during hypnotherapy for weight loss include:
- Envisioning the body you want or the level of fitness/health you wish to achieve.
- Imagining how you will feel with your new look and health.
- Imagining yourself reaching that goal effortlessly.
- Seeing how much you will have improved from today.
- Imagining how energised and confident you will feel.
- Realising that the more you exercise, the more you will want to exercise and the easier it will become to do so.
- Whenever you get the urge to eat something unhealthy, or eat when you're not hungry, imagine not reaching your goal and think about how that will make you feel.
These visualisations and many, many more are designed to empower you so that you can take control of your choices.
Through weight loss hypnosis you will learn to enjoy the taste of healthy food and stop craving sugary, fatty foods.
You will also learn to enjoy your body and not see it as a source of anxiety. By tackling those deep feelings that form the foundations of your eating habits, hypnosis for weight loss can help you adopt a healthier lifestyle and a happier mind set.
If you would like to discuss your situation, then I look forward to hearing from you
Bluebird Hypnotherapy is based Nr Maidstone (Kent) & Harley Street (London)